Down the memory
lane I have had beautiful friends around me who were solely responsible for the
eidetic memory I have. The memories have been shedding gladness over the
past. I thought I would recollect my
beautiful memories during my school days so that people can match it with all
those you had in your lives.
This brought to
mind an aspect of culture which I’ve experienced in Haflong. The culture
brought about by rivalry.
I think it is safe
to say that most schools have a rival. A school that is similar in terms of sports
teams, or reach for the top competitors, or school size, or even just
geographic area. Any time the rival schools compete, students come out in
droves, dressed in uniform chanting school cheers. It brought the school
together, with everyone hoping for the same outcome.
I grew up with
this. The cheers still come to me readily 16 years after I passed out from St
Agnes’. I remember full-school spirit days, travelling to rival schools or
Cultural Institute Hall for contests or simply as part of a cheer squad to
support St Agnes’. Every teacher and student got geared up for these meetings
and made up part of who were we.
Why was our school
better than our rival? It wasn't, necessarily, but we found reasons to be the
better school, and we rallied around those reasons. There are only five schools
in the league . Don Bosco High School, Govt Girls’ High School, CHT Synod, Govt
Boys’ High School. Geographically, the nearest rival school was about 10
minutes .The next closest school, Govt Girls High School was about 20 minutes
away, and the next one CHT Synod another 20 minutes, and Govt Boys High School
about 30 minutes. We all had school spirit. And don’t get me wrong, we never
lacked those regular interactions with a similar school to really get that
rivalry going. We had created a good old-fashioned rivalry (and a healthy one,
at that). We were encouraged to foster
friendly competition; with a hint of "can't wait until we face off against
you again"
I realize that
this isn't the only thing necessary to bring an entire school together in an
over-arching demonstration of its culture. On Republic Day or Independence Day
we would throng in the Roman Field and just glare at Don Bosco boys for no
reason at all. The boys amused themselves by waiting for the girls to come out
of the school wearing their 4 inches below the knee blue skirt and giggling.
And of course, they loved whistling at us. It was just a boy thing I guess. And
the girls felt good about themselves. St Agnes’ girls were prettier and
daintier than the girls of Govt Girls High School or CHT Synod.
The friendship
formed during those years lasted until today. And I’m sure many school mates
would agree that friendship formed in school is the best kind of friendship we
will ever have in life.
We can still joke
and nostalgically reminisce over high school sports tournament, inter school
competitions, friends, secret slam book, making notes at Miss Bonner’s
tuitions, and an overall celebration for the school years. I couldn't have
imagined a more perfect school experience than at Haflong. And to show how much
our little town understands and appreciates tradition and values.